Advice given by H.H.Shri Mataji Nirmala Devi:
But don’t worry about things which are of no value to us. You must know you are a special race. You are special soldiers who have been trained for doing Sahaj work only. So wasting energy on your relations and brothers and sisters is no good for you. It is to be understood now that you have your own energy reserved. For what? For Sahaja Yogis. You should help everyone who is a Sahaja Yogi or who wants to become a Sahaja Yogi. Who are established Sahaja Yogis, you must help them; because we are one personality and these are all the different hands of one personality, one God. So this oneness must be established within yourself and also others should see that oneness in you.
(Diwali Puja 2001)
A kind of a complete integrated organism as you become; you become an organization I should say, which is a living organization. In that you do not feel you are something separate - any Sahaja Yogi, whether he is highly placed or he’s not doing much in life. This integration, this oneness, this feeling of identification with others makes you so large, so big, so great, so powerful. You are not alone, and you say, “I’m not doing anything."
(Sahastrara Puja 1996)